Smashing a cake is truly a great photo and video opportunity for parents. However, about 50% of 1-year-olds are not aware of what is happening and are usually not shocked at their first birthday party because of the crowds and noise. Some children become antisocial, and some will just cry over it. So getting the cake-beating “event” at the party is always a tap away.
But is it okay?
Here are my top 4 tips on how to give this cute photo or video event a better chance of success:
1. Make it a Private function
Children at age 1, no matter how sociable or friendly they are, will be afraid of large social situations. Just imagine 10 to 20 people staring at you expectantly waiting for you to do something great…
Not easy is it?
The same goes for your baby. The best smashing photos and videos come from things that are “planned” with only a small group of people with whom your child is familiar and comfortable.
My tip here is to throw a birthday party for your 1-year-old, and then on a separate day do a ‘party’ with just the family, no more than 5 or 6 people, and make it an ordinary thing.
2. Plan a beautiful space
Just as crowds make your child uncomfortable, unfamiliar spaces can have a similar effect. Obviously the home will be the most comfortable place for your child, however, their favorite park or playground will also work.
You can always bring decorations and props to decorate the space you want to use. It doesn’t need to be big, just enough room for the child and a cake, then decorate around the child and the cake.
3. Use sticky rice cake
It’s surprising how often this is overlooked. Parents want a cake that looks cute. It is usually covered with fondant with many decorations.
If you’ve tried to cut through a cake covered with fondant, you’ll find that it’s actually quite difficult to cut through with a knife, and if you have a dense cake underneath, it takes a bit of work to make it. cut it.
So imagine your 1-year-old baby trying to break the fondant and thick cake with his bare hands. It is not easy.
My recommendation would be to look for a softer, icing icing (yes there are nice icing icing) for the best effect.
4. Don’t stress
I’ve seen this many times: Parents get stressed while pounding a cake. They worry, the baby won’t break the cake, the floor and walls will get dirty, the baby gets the cake in the eye, or the baby’s beautiful party clothes will get dirty.
THAT IS SMALL FACE CAKE.
Getting dirty is part of the fun and being productive. If you want to smash the cake, have the mixture ready. Once you find the space to make the batter, make sure that the walls and floor are easy to clean, don’t do it on your expensive Persian rug.
Buy cheap but cute clothes for your kids, if they can’t be washed, throw them away.
Your stress also affects your child, and they may react to your stress by crying or becoming shy. If you’re happy, so are they.
So remember, the Cake Smash party should be fun for everyone. To get the best photos or videos of it, you need to plan it and make sure the baby is happy.