The year 2023 has arrived and you know what it means: New Year resolutions. It also means that a lot of dieting cultures are pushing us from all angles. For many of us, it’s frustrating and triggering. “New Year: New Friends” is wherever you turn.
While we talk about going with a new year theme, some of you might want to work with and make a few resolutions… Not everyone is trying to hit the gym for a month or plunge into the latest diet craze. Some of us are just looking to improve internally.
In small ways.
No harmful noise diet culture. If you’re looking for a few solutions, these 10 New Year’s Resolutions might be for you!
In no particular order,
Here are 10 New Year’s resolutions that have nothing to do with weight loss
1) There’s no problem with not being invited/invited
In the age of social media, it is easy to get a case of FOMO (fear of missing out). How many times have you seen people go out and think “Wait… why didn’t they tell me?!”
At times, you may not be welcome and you end up putting yourself in an uncomfortable situation. Other times, people may actually forget to tell you.
With this New Year’s Resolution, you should learn to accept not being involved in every aspect of someone’s life. Many times, it’s not even personal.
And even if it is, you now know your place in that person’s life. It’s up to you to act accordingly.
2) Do things alone
Missed a movie you wanted to see? Passed up on a great airline deal? You know why? Because you waited for your friends and they bailed at the last minute.
Think of all the art show openings, concerts, trips, etc. that you didn’t attend because you were hoping someone would come along… Also? You never know what you can learn about yourself, by taking chances and doing things alone!
Life is way too short to miss. Take that trip alone. Try that new restaurant. Truth be told, you’ll find someone to photograph you and you’ll make some new memories. Time does not wait for anyone.
Just give it a try!
3) Say no and mean it
No, it’s a complete sentence. It’s hard to say no. The boundaries we learn to set for ourselves can sometimes be accompanied by guilt. Book, Set boundaries, find peace by Nedra Tawaab is a great place to start learning how to set boundaries for yourself and for others.
So we often agree and regret it before the person hangs up. As soon as we hit send on a text. In the end, you try to find ways to get rid of it.
Interested in what?
If you know you don’t want to do something, say no and stick with it. Will people be upset? Sure! But it’s not worth your energy to perform the task at hand.
To be fair, it also leaves the recipient with no chance to find other options.
This applies to family, friends, work, and anyone else you feel like rejecting!
Just say no.
4) Do something you’ve always dreamed of
Always wanted to do stand-up comedy? Want to become an influencer? Begin a deal? ah, what are you waiting for?
The worst that can happen is that it doesn’t turn out the way you want it to. The best that can happen is that it goes well and you’ll wonder why you didn’t take the leap.
You never know what the journey will show you about yourself and your purpose, if you don’t give yourself a chance to discover…
In the end, at least you tried and that’s the most important thing.
5) Go to therapy
This is one of the most personal goals for the new year… Injuries are not your fault. However, you are responsible for is healing.
The thought of opening up to a complete stranger can be daunting. Having to revisit traumatic situations in your life can be very scary.
But a therapist can put you on a path that leads you to a better place. A place where you can learn to grow instead of just survive.
You don’t have to be a product of your past!
As someone who has gone on a journey of therapy, someone who has learned various tools to get through tough times, and who has had to work to improve herself in her shadow, it was difficult but very rewarding.
6) Rate your friendship
Should I forget my old acquaintance?
Sometimes right!!
We all have that one friend we’ve known, which feels like a lifetime. Sometimes that friend is not the best. However, you can hardly give them up because they have been around for a long time. Sometimes, as I’ve learned, “You grow up faster than your friends.”
When someone asks you why you are friends with them and you say “We’ve known each other for a long time!” Maybe it’s time to really think about what that person means to you.
Time No always equals a valid relationship. A person you met a month ago can give you more emotions than someone you met when you were two years old.
It’s okay to outgrow a friend. Don’t force yourself to nurture an old friendship that’s long since expired.
7) Let go of bad family members!
Talk about Relationshipsyou can stop dealing with family members who mistreat you and make you feel inferior.
Got a rude cousin every time you see them? An aunt who likes to remind you of what you do NOT work with? Got an uncle that annoys you?
Set those boundaries and protect your peace…
Just because they are related to you doesn’t mean you have to be with them.
This goes for parents too. You don’t deserve to be mistreated by anyone.
8) Step out of your fashion comfort zone
When you are shopping online and you see something that you only have dream of wearingbuy it.
Don’t wait to lose a few pounds.
Don’t wait for the opportunity.
Don’t worry about other people’s opinions.
If it brings you joy, wear it. If you want to try something new, do it. You never know what you might unlock by allowing yourself the space to explore your personal style. Confident, bold, playful – each of these can happen when you allow yourself space to play or with specific items in your wardrobe.
9) Take more pictures.
We get so caught up in our self-consciousness that we miss the chance to be part of great memories.
You are worried about whether you are ugly or not.
Can it be edited?
Whether it’s the perfect photo or not.
Those things don’t matter.
Everyone wants to look back and remember you were there. Don’t hide anymore! Life is too short.
Jump in every picture you can!
And if it helps, take the time to how to learn posture might work best for you? Where the poses bring out a certain amount of confidence and energy from you!
10) Make time for what you’re passionate about.
It’s hard to find energy again for side activities after a long day at work. Especially if it’s a job you don’t love.
People like to talk “Beyoncé has 24 hours too and see what she has achieved!”
That’s not practical by any means.
Beyonce has a lot of money and a team. Are you good…you. HAVE time to do what you love.
Buy for yourself a planner (or find a good one online!) and create a schedule. When you write down what you actually do, you will find that you have time.
Instead of spending hours on social media, use that time to do something you’re passionate about!
Bonus #1: Don’t rush.
If you brought any of these New Year’s Resolutions with you, here it is…
The “sleep when I die” very strong culture. Really too strong. You won’t be nice to anyone, especially yourself, if you’re running on an empty cup. It’s okay to do a little bit.
You can rest and take care of yourself.
You may feel like a new year brings new pressures. It’s not. In 2023, do whatever it takes to live your best life.
Did any of these 10 New Year’s Resolutions tell you?
What are some things you want to do and achieve in the new year? Let us know in the comments section!
